Headship is often confused with dictatorship. Sometimes we have this distorted view of leadership where we have to be the one calling all of the shots and telling everyone what to do. This doesn’t just happen in the home, but can happen at work and with friends. Our servanthood is defined by Jesus (Matthew 20:16 First/Last, Mark 10:42-45 Become the servant). Chief servanthood and spiritual leadership begins at the cross. We cannot embrace our call to lead spiritually if we don’t embrace Jesus.